Let's Disagree to Agree
Updated: Nov 10, 2021
The other day I was having lunch with one of my soul sisters, one of those amazing beings with whom I have that special connection, we used to agree in almost everything, until the world got crazy 2 years ago.
We started talking about a very controversial topic, the one that I don’t touch with the ones that I love to avoid conflict, we shared our point of view, and we completely disagree, we tried to convince each other, stating so many valid points without getting anywhere, emotions started to come out: anger, sadness, frustration, confusion, the energy became so heavy because I was feeling judged, attacked and I know she was having a similar experience. The breaking point came when we almost put a label on each other based on what we believed was true, and for me, that’s the beginning of that sense of separation that we are experiencing right now in the world, we are using adjectives on every one depending on their opinions, segregating every one, putting them in a box, forgetting that they are Not what they think, forgetting that they are still our parents, brothers, sisters, friends, neighbors, co-workers, etc, they are like us: human beings doing the best that they can, but most importantly, we forget that they are the ones that we love.
Well, my friend and I didn’t pass that limit, we could be able to stop and remember that we are more than our opinions or believes, that we love each other and that we can disagree in so many things to agree in the importance of accepting and loving each other as we are.
If we did it, I know you can do it too.
Let’s disagree to agree ❤️